Day 25 as a non-smoker. After many previous attempts, I’d decided to try a different approach (hypnosis) on a day (May 1) that encouraged easy calculation of how far I’d made it.
I truly have no desire for a cigarette, but pings of anxiety are not receding quite as fast. I’m leaving behind this habit at a time when I feel I’ve ‘lost my place’ in the world, or maybe it’s that I’m not entirely sure how to reinvest my considerable energy after four years of Oakland Women’s Center. I’ve been living solo all month as Dave does his migrant cameraman gigs in DC. May weather mostly bleak and overcast from the nippy dawn to 4pm-ish, when an outbreak of sun may occur for a hour or two, then low grey clouds reclaim the sky.
It’s a compelling process to leave behind a habit as demanding as smoking, I’d had to fill the ‘void’ with something useful and satisfying. Gardening and mosaic art – both of which soothe me. Friends are inviting me over to spring clean their yards, an activity I find splendidly entertaining.
I read all the time – pretty much anything that draw my interest. To me, libraries are sacred places.
Slowly I’m returning to writing. Working two major projects: a nonfiction book almost finished; and the VOG (the muse dazzles me with the one) just beginning.
Meanwhile, I drifted for five twilight-zonish hours in the DMV to replace a license plate that was stolen or jolted off the car. Florescent glare; cubicles in circle-the-wagons array; clots of numbers streamed in an automated voice over a loudspeaker, flashed on large screens shared with assorted news, propaganda, and the weather; people of all sizes, shapes, colors, and afflictions shuffling to windows, the State raking in fees; everybody resigned to waiting. I was intrigued by one fine proposal from a fellow queue-stander on how to eliminate the choke points.
Overall, a week of hideous self-doubt that I’ve beaten back out of cheer cussedness. Giving up is not an attractive option.